As I sit listening to Fela Kuti, a musician who once married 27 women at one time, I can't help but think of the newest rebirth of the idea of plural marriage. For three seasons, Big Love has asked the questions of what it means to be a good wife, friend, and Mormon living in Utah. These are very culturally specific questions however the broader themes of love, conflict, and family are shared throughout every society.
Though I have written largely of films, HBO has been apart of my life for the past 6 years and has influenced my creativity continually. I have gotten addicted to most of their shows, and have yet to me disappointed. Though I may not wish to be entertained by some of their story lines, they are each unique and have the unfailingly superb taste of Home Box Office stamped all over them. Big Love is no exception and I have been interested in the world of Barb, Nicki, Marge, and Bill since opening night. Having the venerable producing talents of Tom Hanks doesn't hurt the quality of the show one bit.
Does the heart only love one person? Can a family consisting of multiple partners be considered 'family'? What are the reasons some people arrive at polygamy as a life answer? Discussed throughout the seasons, the commentary behind the seamless story-line begs the audience to do more than placidly watch. Though I am not in a position to answer any questions concerning love it is nice to have a show that forces you to question of your existence and beliefs.
Bottom Line: If you can put aside your own prejudices and concern yourself with the characters it is one show not to be missed. Though the conservative aspects can be distracting for a liberal like me the story is superbly told, and continually keeps me guessing.